And the absence of such signs is also read and serves as an indicator of a person’s attitude towards you
In the contact of close people, even unexpressed gratitude is felt by people, they understand it. And they also understand the absence of this inner gratitude. A special expression of gaze, a touch, a special tone of voice, the desire to repay, help, do something pleasant – all these are signs of gratitude not expressed in words. And these signs are instantly read by your communication partners, bringing them deep satisfaction. And the absence of such signs is also read and serves as an indicator of a person’s attitude towards you. So, a gloomy husband can eat your food, never thank, not praise it, but under the pressure of your outrage, say that yes, of course, thank you, he is grateful. But the woman understands that she is not grateful. For gratitude is read without words. Words without inner experience at least showed her that the person wants to please her. And so without words, and without body language speaking of gratitude, absolutely sadness.
The origins of ingratitude
Parents should not overestimate their role in shaping the personality of their children. The environment brings up, and the child’s environment is much wider than his family. And the older the child, the wider the environment. The information that is overflowing with the modern world is also part of the environment, practically uncontrollable.
But in the topic of gratitude, the role of parents is extremely important.